7 Principles of Emphatic Communication
Dr, Haim C. Gringott gives parents a master class for parents on communication and how to empathize with your children. (2003) Between Parent and Child, Harmony Publishing , 192-203. Book He teaches us: 1. The beginning of wisdom is listening. - You cannot know the best choices for your child without first listening to them and seeking to understand their needs at this time. A child's current perspective changes their needs in different scenarios. 2. Do not deny your child's perceptions. - In order to understand we must value their perception of the world and the problems they are facing. We cannot dismiss their ideas or tell them how they should be feeling in the situation. 3. Instead of criticism, use guidance. - You need to clearly state the problem and give your child alternative solutions they can use to solve the problem themselves. The child isn't the problem, the problem is. 4. When you're angry, Use "I" statements. - Describe how you feel, what you...
